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Five Financial Decisions That Made My Downshift Possible

Five Financial Decisions That Made My Downshift Possible

I was fourteen, shivering in a borrowed tent on the Appalachian Trail in a waterlogged cotton sleeping bag, too proud to ask my dad, a retired Marine, for the gear that was sitting in our basement. Thirty years later, here are the five financial decisions that made my downshift possible, and the lesson it took me a cold night on a mountain to learn.

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The Weekday World I Never Saw

The Weekday World I Never Saw

In my twenties I sat at the same corner table every weekday morning, life rich and money poor, watching the Blue Ridge disappear into haze. I traded it for twenty-five years of building. This month I walked back into a coffee shop, a gym, and an empty trail to find out what the weekday world looks like before I move in for good.

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The Sequence That Determines Whether Your Retirement Lasts (And How to Sleep Through the Chaos)

The Sequence That Determines Whether Your Retirement Lasts (And How to Sleep Through the Chaos)

I graduated from graduate business school in May 2007 into a city buzzing with possibility. By 2008, I was watching people carry file boxes out of high-rise towers. What I learned about markets in that season, no classroom ever taught me. This post is about the one retirement math concept most people skip entirely, and the three protections that let you sleep at night when markets do what markets inevitably do.

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