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Thoughts on reinvention, clarity, work, money, and the quiet decisions that shape a life. New essays each week as we explore what it means to build a life with intention.
You Can Look Wealthy or Build Wealth. Pick One.
At sixteen I drove a $500 Gran Torino and revved the engine at stoplights hoping someone would notice. Nobody did. Most of us are still doing a version of this today. The car is nicer. The stakes are higher. And the cost is bigger than we realize.
The First Tastes of Freedom on the FI Journey
A bathroom fan with a loose bearing. A chart on the refrigerator. A heart racing at midnight over a spreadsheet. This is what building financial freedom actually sounds like from the inside. And what it feels like when it finally starts to arrive.
Six Things I Wish My 45-Year-Old Self Had Known
I went back to look at photos from June 2019. I was 45. My son was heading into high school. We had just spent 10 days in Alaska, helicopters over glaciers, sled dogs, ice calving off tidewater walls, and a bear-watching tour that produced zero bears and a family pun tradition that still runs. My wife and I stayed up past midnight somewhere in the Inside Passage, the sun refusing to set, talking about the life we were building.
I had a job I loved. A great team. I was present for the moments that mattered.
And still, looking back from 52, there are six things I wish I had known, not because I was failing, but because knowing them would have made a good season even better.
The 10-Year Window Most People Miss
The shopkeepers were washing down the sidewalks when I arrived. Paris at dawn is quieter than you'd expect. I had my fountain pen with me. I always do. I sat there for an hour, maybe longer — writing, praying, asking hard questions about the window I could feel closing. I didn't know yet what to call it. I do now.
Three Versions of Enough
Most of us spend our entire careers chasing one version of enough — the number. But financial independence is only the first threshold. There are two more, and most people never cross them. This post is about all three — and why the combination changes everything.
Cutting the Ankle Weights: How I Finally Reclaimed My Life
I thought I was building a successful life. Then I realized I was carrying fifty pounds of ankle weights. This is the story of how I finally set them down.